Monday, March 23, 2009
One more thing about the weight---
When a friend comments on my weight, I see the compliment in it. It's when it's not a friend that bothers me... and I see the malice and the insecurity seeping out. Keep it to yourself is all I'm saying. I don't need your crap shoveled off of your doorstep onto mine.
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I've been naturally thin, too, until about 2 years ago. I'm still thin, but I've really got to work at it now!
When I was in college, a heavy girl that sat behind me in one class made anorexia/eat a hamburger/famine victim comments to me. One day, I'd had enough. I turned around and said, "I can't believe a girl your size is drinking a coke that big."
Other people gasped, and she acted all wronged, and I said, "and that feeling you have now? That's how I feel every day you make a comment."
That shut her up.
I have one friend that is super tiny. I'm always busting her ass about it. I'll tell her to eat a sandwich or some chicken wings or something. But, it's not out of malice or insecurity. I love her and it IS a compliment. I would love to be that small. But, I'm not. So, I give her crap.
I'd totally give you crap. But, not because I was being a vengeful b*itchbag.
:)
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